Loving yourself is the first objection you must overcome to identify your calling in life.

I tweeted this last week and the thought has been growing in my mind.

Let me explain.

Do you ever feel like you’re capable of so much more, yet you’re stuck living a life of “what-ifs”?

Imagine if you could identify that one thing you’re best at—your superpower—and use it to transform your life and career.

It all starts with loving yourself and overcoming the first objection: believing that you have a unique gift to offer the world.

The Struggle to Find Your Superpower

Many people lack the self-awareness to recognize their superpower.

Negative mindsets and self-doubt prevent them from finding themselves.

They feel stuck in a corporate job, unappreciated and unfulfilled, believing they will never accomplish great things.

Think of your superpower as a needle in the haystack.

Without self-awareness and a positive mindset, it’s like trying to find that needle in complete darkness.

The Impact of Not Knowing Your Superpower

This lack of self-awareness leads to stagnation and frustration.

You feel like you’re going through the motions, following a path laid out by others, but never truly living your own life.

The consequences? Poor mental health, low self-esteem, and a constant sense of inadequacy.

Connecting this to your career, every day you spend in a job that doesn’t value your unique talents is another day you feel disconnected from your true self.

This gnawing dissatisfaction affects every aspect of your life, making you question your worth and purpose.

Are you waking up every day, dreading work, and feeling unappreciated and unfulfilled?

This cycle of negativity and self-doubt keeps you from living a life of purpose and happiness.

Now, the good part is you can reverse courses.

5 Steps to Discovering Your Superpower

1. Practice Mindfulness and Clarity

Becoming mindful allows you to observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment. This practice helps you better understand yourself and recognize patterns in your thoughts and behaviors.

I don’t meditate, so I won’t tell you to try it.

But spend 10 minutes each morning or evening observing your thoughts. This simple practice can bring immense clarity and self-awareness.

2. Keep a Journal

Journaling is a powerful tool for self-discovery and personal growth. Writing down your thoughts and feelings helps you communicate with yourself and identify emotional triggers.

You don’t always have to so in your feelings, you can be tactical as well.

Think of journaling as having a conversation with your future self. It’s a way to track your progress and better understand yourself.

3. Reflect Regularly

Reflecting on your experiences and emotions helps you gain clarity and improve self-awareness. Compare your thoughts and feelings from the past to the present to understand your growth and patterns.

For example, I spent years following a traditional career path, feeling unfulfilled and disconnected from my true calling. It wasn’t until I started reflecting on my journey that I realized what I wanted to do with my life.

4. Get Feedback from Others

Ask for feedback from peers, mentors, and colleagues. Understanding how others perceive you can provide valuable insights into your strengths and areas for improvement.

Their perspectives can help you see yourself more clearly. Just be aware not to get defensive, there will always be things you can improve upon.

5. Identify Your Superpower

Through mindfulness, journaling, reflection, and feedback, you will start to improve your self-awareness and self-esteem.

With a positive mindset, you can begin to identify your superpower.

Why You Should Care

Understanding and embracing your superpower isn’t just about personal satisfaction; it’s a game-changer for every aspect of your life.

When you identify and harness your superpower, you unlock a world of opportunities.

• Increased self-confidence

• Stronger relationships

• Better luck (more on this another time)

And your superpower isn’t just about a skill. It’s about connecting that skill with your passion and finding your purpose in life.

Need guidance?

Remember, you have a unique gift that the world needs. It’s time to unleash your superpower and start living the life you deserve.

Mindset Jujitsu.

As always, I love to chat with you guys! Reply back to this email or DM me on X (@markfrommktg) with any questions, feedback, or to simply kick it.

Thanks for being here.

Talk soon,

Mark